When somebody close to you is struggling with forgiveness it’s very difficult to see them continue to be bound up in the past – either past mistakes they have made, or that others have made. But then I ask myself, do I allow myself to not forgive others in the church when they make mistakes too? What about those who do not yet profess a trust in Christ’s sacrifice? Do I limit the grace I am able to receive because of a judgmental spirit within me?

TD Jakes transparently addresses the difference between forgiveness and trust, and answers many other questions about his new book, Let It Go: